10 Signs Your Parent May Need Help at Home
10 Signs Your Parent May Need Help at Home
Watching a parent age is one of the most emotional and difficult things we do as adult children. Sometimes the signs of struggle are subtle. Other times, they’re glaring — but no one wants to admit it.
If you're starting to feel concerned, these 10 signs may be your cue to explore in-home support.
1. They’ve Fallen — Even Once
Even one fall increases their risk of another. You might notice bruises, cuts, or even just “I tripped but I’m fine” comments.
2. Their Home Isn’t as Clean or Safe as It Used to Be
Stacks of unopened mail, spoiled food, or unwashed laundry can be early indicators that daily tasks are getting overwhelming.
3. They’re Missing Medications or Taking the Wrong Doses
Managing pills can get complicated — and dangerous. Missed doses, duplicates, or confusion about meds are major red flags.
4. They Seem Isolated or Withdrawn
Has your parent stopped attending church, calling friends, or leaving the house? Social withdrawal can lead to depression — and often follows mobility issues.
5. They’ve Lost Weight Without Trying
This could be due to forgetting to eat, not being able to cook, or even underlying health problems.
6. Their Hygiene Has Changed
Skipping baths, wearing the same clothes for days, or avoiding nail care might signal physical limitations or cognitive decline.
7. Their Memory Slips Are Becoming More Frequent
We all forget names sometimes — but repeated confusion, misplaced items, or repeating the same story over and over are worth noting.
8. They’re Confused About Money or Bills
Unpaid utilities, piles of junk mail, or calling you frequently with banking questions can point to early cognitive challenges.
9. You’re Getting More Frequent Phone Calls (or Worrying Constantly)
If you feel like you’re “on-call” 24/7, it’s okay to admit it’s too much. You don’t have to wait for a crisis to get help.
10. They’ve Had a Close Call — But Won’t Admit It
Whether it's a small kitchen fire or getting lost on a short drive, these “almost” moments are the warning lights.
What to Do Next
You don’t need to jump into full-time care overnight. Sometimes just a few hours a week of professional help makes a huge difference — and gives you peace of mind.
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Final Thoughts
No one wants to make their parent feel incapable. But noticing these signs — and having a gentle conversation early — is one of the most loving things you can do.
If you ever need guidance, our team at Silk In-Home Care is here for you. Call us to just talk if you need to 740-245-1051.